My maternal grandma and paternal grandma still healthily accompany us. My maternal grandma i could say we only see her at most three time a year because we always busy and is too inconvenient for us to visit her. We did not own a family car and so when we visit her by mrt we need to squeeze with other people and there was a long way of walks before reaching her house. We could not fetch a taxi because we have one extra people. My family had an common personality or thinking, that is lazy to go out and too much trouble to have outing. So we like to spend most of the time at home.
My paternal grandma lived with us, in the past entries i got talk a little about her. Let me introduce her to all of you. Since young she took care or me or rather said she partner with me. Since my school time table was not the same as my siblings. when i young i spent a lot time with my grandma, we go "marketing" together she always buy dim xin as breakfast for me. We watched the same tv programme. I like to share thing with her, i like to talk to her. That time she seemed to understand all i had said.
However one thing i always couldn't understand since i so call brought u by my grandma and why i couldn't speak well in her dialect. As i grew, i started to disagree to her principles and we talk lesser and there were so much gap. Sometime, i will be rude to tell her keep quiet so that i can concentrate doing my work. Sometime i know she wanted to talk t me however it the right time. As she always wanted to chat with me when i was busy doing my works. What made me pissed off is she is so soft that took too much effort for me to listen and she repeated so many time i still could not catch her. As people grow older, they get senile a bit so sometime couldn't understand what she trying to say. As people grow older, their stubborn is not a joking matter, they used " force to get you do or listen to their instructions. This is so truth that i see so much changes in my grandma. I do regret how i talk to her,i do regret how i unable to spend time with her. However, when thing happened again and again i still making the same mistakes.
So here i hope and wish that she stay healthily as long as possible. Happy New Year.
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My uncle and his family lived in the same blk as us, and is only two floor above us. So since young we were close to our cousins. My both cousins one guy one girl are both elder than us. But to compare them, the guy one the best since he the oldest of all of us. He took good care and concern to us. He will help us whenever and whatever he could, like academic and stuffs in life. You can ask him to help you in repairing computer, printer and a lot more things. When he don't know how to solve, he will help you to find solutions.
However, we took him for granted, every time he make and request will will reject him. But most of the time is because we had a good reasons. And that day, last day of 2010, he wanted one of us to accompany him to countdown with him since our community centre have the countdown celebration and there is fireworks. Me and my brother rejected him when he came down to "invite us personally" by saying we wanted to watch a tv shows even through he never say out when he comes down but we know what he wanted.That tv shows ended up quite disappointing and i felt that we let him down as he always be there to help us up and we can't even accompany him to watch the fireworks. He ended up counting down at home.
