Due to the school work , for the module family and youth work we were asked to set up a blog as our "daliy diary" for our ICA2 reports. To admit i am quite a computer dinosaur as compare to my sister, who is an "expert" in all setting up a blog, website or do a personal web page or use adobe photoshop to do all the nice and pretty pictures. So when i have the urge to set up my blog and design my own blogskin, i faced some problem of attach my family photos to the blogskin and i asked for help from my sister who is preparing for her o-level. She is quite "willing" to help me initially so that she also can find an excuse to escape her studies. However as her personality, i could say is a perfectionist she will only stop doing unless she think that the job is perfectly done. Therefore when i only asked the help for attaching the photo she did extra things and edit some of my design. Now her return to face some problems in designing but i told her it okay already cause my expectations is not very high.
As the old chinese saying say " disaster came out of the mouth"(translate), i totally agreed to it. My sister was super angry with me when i said that " it okay already" to her. She felt that i was wasting her time by asking her to help, but my initial thinking was since we unable to change much already why not leave it and so that she could carry on with her studies. However she just couldn't understand that, she blames me for wasting her precious time with my things.
After this incident i learned that never interrupt a perfectionist when he or she is doing their works. They will just think that you are not appreciated with their helps.
