why when i helped my siblings they always took advantages of me. Some times i felt that i am their maid and not their elder sister. Issit because i always let them go, when they do the "wrong" thing and helped them to clear up the mess they made? I also don't know, i felt that i serving them because look that the small things in our lifestyles . After eatting, my parents will ask us to clear up our own mess and wash our own utensil. I also don't like to do it like my siblinngs, but i always helped them wash until i felt that they throw their plates to me to wash. They did not appreciate it, they will always ask me to take things for them. I felt like a maid, need to serve them.
what the worse partwas that when they asked you to so something, and they still not please with the result. They scolded you, shouted you but they never thought that i had spent my time trying seriously to help them. So trying to be a good person is always a difficult task. They i always complainig while helping them because i knew that in the end i don't really get their appreciation from them. Or i could say i pamper them too much just because they are younger.
